Thursday, December 25, 2008

Happiness: inside out

Impromptu it was. I asked two friends about their resolution for 2009. One wanted to go back to vegetarianism, as marriage kinda forced her to take up non-veg; my other friend knows the reality of life as he said, "Resolutions are meant to be broken. Why ask me?"

The questions came back to me. Well, I thought for a while. actually I started doing so even before they had asked me the same question back. I answered, to ensure I am happy inside out and not wait for someone else to make me happy. Wow!! Wat a liner! But, guess, it will take a lot of effort on my part to remain positive and keep myself calm. Now, there is atleast one challenge I am looking forward to in the new year eve. I am happy to have made a new year resolution for the first time in life and it will be an uphill task to abide by it. I wish myself and my readers a great new year ahead to achieve whatever we wish to, which of course, should not hurt any other person around in any manner... Cheers!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

The sentimental check-in


The Taj Mahal Palace Hotel and Trident are finally opening. Now it is time to check-in! But who is checking in? Travel is low and it is Christmas, when most corporates don’t come to India anyway. Also, travel advisories from countries are keeping people at bay from an Indian holiday! Well, after the rescue operation was over and Kasab behind the bars, senior high-profile journalists of major dailies, etc. were flooring pages with articles about their sentiments attached to the TAJ. And, also with their wish to check in as soon as it opens.

I find it difficult to digest why you would need to display your affection for the hotels and reserve before hand by claiming so publicly. Though, that is a subjective preference, I must agree. Yet, I really don’t know what the other hotels must be thinking about it considering their opportunity is lost due to the terror attacks, as the conventional peak season is Nov-Mar, which is predicted to remain low this time around. On the other hand, people will be flocking into these two attacked hotels compensating them for the room night losses they had to bear apart from the interests crown would have to wine, dine and swing there to check out some obvious signs. Good for the Tata’s and Oberoi’s; occupancy is definitely going to be high in this season for the two.

Nevertheless, wish all the hotels a very Happy Christmas and New Year ahead.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Litmus of relationship

I through my experiences so far have understood that the real litmus of relationship is passed only when we travel and share a journey. It teaches a lot about a person we are traveling with, so much so that years of knowing a person turn hostile.

As we enter a journey phase, there are facets that unfolds; not only about the other person but also about self. A journey, thus, holds true for knowing ourselves and the abilities (with disabilities) we possess. A journey checks out our patience to arrive at a consensus, guide a group in a definite direction, take criticism and accept those, sync us with the natures of other people, accommodating capability, enduring the test to tackle arguable situations with calm and poise, respecting individuals, retaining self respect and dignity, …

The list is perpetual. The fact that we return back in our daily lives thus offers us an insight where we are comfortable, what is my boundary to the world around, to the people I interact, and so on. A few days back, a dear friend of mine recalled my take on journeys as an essence of identifying people sans their superficial existence. Friend’s account of reminding me, that I was correct (probably having gone through a reality check at the first place), gave a sense of relief. I was right when I had taken to journeys with people known or unknown. Today, I have been proven right again. So, I wish everybody “happy journeys” to know what they are and whom they are with. Travel a lot and make them into journeys and know people (friends, relatives, family, colleagues, accomplices, etc.) what they actually are as individual personality.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Why pick phone?

Of late, I have started doing this. I receive a call on cell to say I can’t talk now. Just today, I received a call when I was in the busy cafeteria. Knowing that I won’t be able to hear anything whatsoever I answered it and said politely that the space is very noisy and will revert later. But that is so not courteous! Why I need to pick up the phone at the first place then? This habit actually is a consequence of many calls I have experienced where my voice have been thwarted making me feel undesired, when I am the seeker. People would invariably pick up, say hi, give reason(s) why they can’t continue and hang up.

Why you need to do so? Especially if you are driving or so… I have realized this flaw is creeping into me, I will now onwards consciously look to answer a call completely unless that is an unsolicited marketing call.

I know the situation is subjective and some might feel that some calls are important than others, but I beg to differ. Only exception is FAMILY. They should be responded at once no matter how busy I might be to assure them “I’m there” and will reach them sooner.

I will ensure to pick the cell phone when I know ---- I can talk and complete the conversation in all respect.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Living on the Edge

Life for the last two days has been like being on a shore and waves hitting me upfront. There is nothing special about the situation, as I can save myself by a calm withdrawal. But there lies the irony; what make the situation edgy is that I am not allowed to move out of the series of events that have been taking place of late and being continuously fed with… almost none have been able to evade the high tide this time. Yes, the situation I am talking of is of the shores of our up financial capital. It has really been hit hard by a tide of emotions, anxiety, loss and desperation. We are all waiting patiently to know the next – latest - breaking eyebrow-raising event to unfold. A case of ‘No Event’ will actually shrink our face. And that is the sad part of this reality.

Yet, I have tried my level best to keep away from pondering too much into the issues. But how long can one do so? I am being drawn inadvertently by what is being discussed by peer groups, friends and colleagues. What the international community has to say about it, how they are reading these terrorizing attacks as, its implication on the India’s economic agenda, so on and so forth. Further, the national leaders have rallied to display their “being together” in time of national crisis but I feel, this is more of a political one. No surprise that headlines like “When politics takes a backseat, foes join hands” takes a lead (courtesy HT). Add to that news that 24x7 channels are beaming…. and if we are at our work places, a click of the mouse can direct us to podcasts for live updates about the scenario. Escaping LIVE coverage is a crime, and we are not committing so, isn’t it!

Journalists were not spared in the e-mail accounts. Corporate communications of The Oberoi Hotels & Resorts and Taj are giving updates on the events whereas industry associations like CII and ASSOCHAM expressing their condemnation on the situation. Chat status of many shows desperation where one reads – “News channels have gone blank. Phones too, are going down”. That’s from my colleague Chetan in Mumbai, who is at the Express Towers, right across the Trident Oberoi at Nariman Point. Another one state: “is wondering what next??”

Neeti (my colleague in Mumbai, Nariman Point) has written her status with precision considering her proximity to one of the ground zeros, as the situations are unfolding slowly. Her view --- “ya can hear the controlled explosions”.

On the other hand, a PR professional trying to figure this entire event as he writes – “Terrorist Attack or Political Attack...???” Adding further he suggest, “Just kill those terrorists...”

I just cannot escape the escapade. So now I have started to looking at different facets this attacks is brining about to fore. When, yesterday, all day long I was accruing news never came across anything on the MNS. I was surprised. No longer it was Maharashtra! We are talking India under siege. Amazingly, my colleague in Delhi shared an sms he received, which summed my emotions completely --- “Where is Raj Thackeray and his ‘brave’ Sena? Tell him that 200 NSG commandos from Delhi (No Marathi manoos! All South & North Indians!) have been sent to Mumbai to fight terroists so that he can sleep peacefully. Please forward to (it to those) cowards.”

What essentially the message evoked is a passion that many do care about Mumbai as India’s integral entity. It is not different from India’s security then why he cribs about only the state in a fashion he does. The consensus is there to see. Everyone wants him to understand that beating rickshaw / taxi walas or workers with no “Marathi Identity”, is nothing more than a coward act. I feel like tracing the genesis of the sms. He needs to see how strong emotions this attack has brought out irrespective of the fact many are not happy the way Mumbai has lost its uniqueness in 2007 onwards.

Looking at the political front, L K Advani’s arrival in Mumbai along with Jaswant Singh (if I am correct) is a needless act. Politicians demand more security and put needless pressure on the forces when they need to pay attention in every nook and corner of the city on red alert. These sympathy (mourning) tours are irritating. While congress might be bad in being soft on tackling the terror issues, BJP is ruining its chances by sms-ing provocative messages to many people in Delhi to win assembly election (to be held tomorrow) votes. Also, in view of elections, promotions should stop completely 24 hours before the election begins. What’s in a RULE… might just be BJP’s claim to fame. It is really a grime situation.

While I go through all things, there is also a ray of hope, as I failed to remain isolated with no information about Mumbai attacks. “Twenty-nine-year-old blogger Harish Iyer started his post -- Terror in Bombay -- soon after the attacks started. He published his mobile phone number and email address. In the 20 or so hours since midnight in Mumbai, November 27, he's received around sixty phone calls and 100 emails from people desperate to find loved ones,” CNN reported.

Now people away from Mumbai, in case they can’t go through their family members, are contacting him on phone and e-mail to know about the safety of their dear ones. There are instances where he is facilitating the update, by setting base with Taj or Oberoi customer emergency cell, about the whereabouts of many trapped inside the hotel.

He has no personal agenda. Even if there is one, for sure that is not a political one. Also by his name I can figure out he belongs to Tamil Nadu. It is quite possible that he might be a Mumbaikar having lived his life throughout in Mumbai. After all, I don’t know him personally.